Here’s the thing, revealing too much on social media creates a revolving door for judgment, criticism, biased opinions and negative backlash. Nicole’s situation is a harsh reminder that the Internet can be a cruel and unforgiving place — especially for Black women — but despite Nicole’s actions, she doesn’t deserve the harassment. Her situation is a cautionary tale of the unforeseen results of being “too transparent.” While she has the right to share her experiences, it’s important to weigh the potential consequences before doing so. In this case, the risks clearly outweighed the rewards. Not to mention, there is a time and place for everything. And honestly, this wasn’t the time, place or platform for any of it.